The school covers a huge part of our life. We start learning from there. Most importantly the first day in school is worth remembering. No one forgets the first day of school. It is a journey that decides life. The type of behaviour of a person in most cases depends on theschool. At least we consider so!
Every parent cannot deny that how much a school can influence a child. Yes, now influence can be a positive one or a negative one. It is sure that school teachers will not affect the student in a negative way. What about friends? You never know with whom your kidsare getting involved in school and what effect it would leave on your kids.
But keeping this minor thing aside schools also plays a positive impact on the students. Childhood and school are so much connected with mental growth and development.
A small kid begins the journey with the primary schools and teachers. There they learn to make friends. Whether it is a good one or,bad, they naturally cannot decide that at that age. They consider their teachers and friends really important and flawless.
Gradually, they grow up and shift to broader prospects of school life. They grow up and make a greater friend circle. They become more smart and confident. They start taking a big leap towards their dream. The teachers play such a vital part. Their lessons, advice, scolds, punishment, ideas and everything helps the child to know what’s wrong and what’s right. Here lies the significance of child development in school.
There is another thing which students learn from school is to analyse. Analysing a situation is not easy. But with the development of every skill, students try to know the reasons behind every situation, trying to sort problems and thought that in thecase of failuresmust try once again.
These all techniques a child first learns from school and that’s so much encouraging. The positive mentality that all problems are solvable encouraged kids and become helpful in the long run. A flavour of the challenge will always give them a challenge that why this cannot happen, let’s give another try if not then again another.
The other psychological thing that the schools enlighten within the students is a huge knowledge about own-self. Character building is not an optional thing for the achievements of the school. It is the most important criteria of any person.
We determine people by the character that they develop while in school and carry a lifetime. Like schools are responsible for a child’s skill to read write manners courtesy etc., in the same way, schools are also responsible partially about the characters of it as students. Because they are the initiators! Students get to know what character is and how it must be. It depends on students which one to choose.
All these little things that are being taught at school such assimply polite to everyone, respecting people, showing kindness, helping people, maintaining discipline.
All these are of great utility in real life and the more these things you apply in your life your character will be decided. If students are being taught all these things at school when young, then they can absorb all these good habits in before the bad ones enter them. Hence,these good habits will grow in them, and when they grow old, it will be of great utility.
So whatever other peoples may say, but I cannot deny the fact that students get maximum influenced by the schools. To be more specific schools do affect the student psychology the most. The several activities that take occur in the schools happen for some reason, and this is right this.
I have also heard from many people blaming schools for someone with a bad reputation or some bad habits. But no, that’s so wrong. If your kid hangs out with bad friends, then it is no way the responsibility of the schools.
Parents must be aware enough of their child and to what activities they are involved in. Schools can only show students the right path and the wrong one, but it depends on the kids and their parents that which one you are choosing!
If you ask my experience, then I will tell that yes when I was a student even I too had faced these situations. Like I was so fond of school and always followed what the teachers said. Even there was a time when I used to deny with my parents regarding the teachers. I was so much involved with the teachers and the school things. I absorbed all the good things, habits that werebeing taught at school. And I will never be ashamed of accepting this truth of life.
Well, the teacher’s behaviour affects students a lot. Like a toddler follows whatever his mum does the students similarly also try to follow the teachers. So if the teachers make a true effort and focus on the student’s behaviour, then it will be of great help to the parents and the society in a broader scope.
To encourage this growing up kids, the schools also arrange different reward systems. So, they can feel like to get that reward this time. These things really work! For the growing up kids, parents also must know ways to handle high school adolescent for a better career.